I have to confess to using bags as last resorts - such as when at a conference and the only other thing at the beverage table is coffee, or I'm out with friends when they decide to stop for coffee. I figure grousing about the tea will just annoy the people around me, so I just suck it up and use the bag.
I've also made my own bags of my loose leaf teas for travel. They don't work so well, so I bought an ingenuitea to take with me on trips.
As for the gourmand/gourmet dichotomy, a gourmet is a connoisseur - only the best will do, and it has to be served properly. A gourmand is just interested in good food and drink. In most instances, I fall into the latter category.
This is probably why my local shop owner grimaces when I tell him that we drink scented teas at breakfast. :)