I at a loss as to how to serve a tea party for two or three people with an English tea set. All of the advice on how to make good tea gives times for steeping of three to eight minutes. They also advise against tea balls or infusers because they don't allow the tea leaves to properly unfurl and expand. I agree with this, because the premium teas I prefer expand a LOT. So the dilemma is, how do I stop the steeping without resorting to inelegant or messy manipulation. When I make tea for myself alone, I brew it in an everyday teapot, and after the designated brewing time I pour it through a gold coffee filter into a preheated thermos. Then I'm set for five cups of very hot tea to drink at my leisure over several hours. A thermos at the tea table doesn't fit in, though, and to use my nice bone china teapot for only six minutes seems a waste. So far the best bet seems to be to brew the tea in my everyday pot out of sight in the kitchen, then filter it into the (preheated) fancy pot and use a tea cozy.
How do others do it? Any ideas?
--Rich