Michael -
I think my "deep" understanding of English is not deep enough in this case. I still honestly do not understand what you find wrong with "occidental". Let us decide it between ourselves that since you live in NY, i.e.to the east of me and I - to the west of you, I will be your occidental friend and you - my oriental?
Me - when I hear an intentional slur, I pity the sayer more than I pity the sayee. Being half-Jewish, half - Moslem from former Russian nobility in communist USSR and then being "Russian" here in America there is not a country above 60 deg. North lattitude to which I was not emphatically sent "back" verbally at one time in my life or another. :) The funniest one was several years ago when I went outside of my office building to have a smoke and was confromted by a surprisingly nervous gentlemen who did not like the smell of my pipe tobacco. In a few seconds the smell of my tobacco was connected to the place of my origin and I was recommended to return there ASAP with quite elaborate linguistic arrangements. Later I learned the reason for his nervousness - when he knocked on my door half an hour later to be interviewed for a job in my company. I wished he was as aggressive intellectually as he was racially. I would have hired him. I enjoy heat and sparkles at work - makes the atmosphere sharper. And I have nothing against a racist with good ideas in math and genetics who would make me rich - I would actually greatly enjoy the irony :)))
Sasha.