Celebrated our 26th anniversary (not counting the 7 years before she 'trapped' me) last night at home, uncharacteristically, as we usually go out for a nice dinner.
I can now vouch for the fact that Hiedsieck NV goes passably well with duck and chinese mushrooms (not the vintage Hiedsieck with Chinese - what sort of barbarian do you take me for?).
If you are very careful to avoid hot or strongly flavoured foods, you can mate _some_ Chinese cuisine (NOT Szechuan!) with wine - I've found bubbly works well (many good red and white get killed by a mismatch).
I usually wait and drink any wine I've opened afterthe meal.