Hello Jack - I didn't see your orgininal post so Negodki was nice enough to post your questions. That's a great price for a refractometer. Your boil and replace technique is interesting and will probably get you close to the actual SG. Why not do some side-by-side tests and report back.
With respect to sweetness The American Wine Society suggests that a sweet wine should contain 3.1 to 6% residual sugar (specific gravity 1.012 to
1.024). Of course, perceived sweetness depends on your taster.
There is a method and formula that may allow direct use of a refractometer to measure specific gravity of a fermenting must. This formula was proposed by Louis Bonham on the HBD back in 1999. I worked with the formula a bit years ago but I'm not sure how good the calculated SG agrees with the actual SG. Again, some experiments would be in order.
BTW, my grain mill is still going strong in it's third year. Nice machine.
Bill Frazier Olathe, Kansas
Louis Bonham's equation for the specific gravity calculation is given below:
SG=1.001843-0.002318474(OG)-0.000007775(OG^2)-0.000000034(OG^3)+0.00574(AG)+
0.00003344(AG^2)+0.000000086(AG^3)
Definitions: SG estimated specific gravity of the sample ^2 = squared OG Original gravity of the batch (in Brix) ^3 = cubed AG Apparent Gravity of the sample (in Brix)