You are absolutely right that it is much easier to grow organically in the drier west and I was going to point that out in my post, but figured the reply would be that the OP was from the east where it is a lot tougher to combat disease - probably it's a lot harder to grow good vinifera grapes in general. I would think there are some people doing it successfully, however.
Interesting about the oxyclean. Perhaps you should consider Oxidate
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another organic fungicide I forgot about. Don't know if it's registered for grapes but at least it is a registered pesticide unlike oxyclean. It's widely used in the greenhouse industry for a variety of disease problems.
As far as the milk for powdery mildew, I have seen the original research on this and it did work in cucurbits. Don't know if anyone has tested it on grapes.